It is a sad today. Leighton McCrary, former Head Men's Basketball Coach at Grand Canyon University from 1990-2004 passed away this morning. Coach MAC was an amazing human being! He was an incredible coach who I had the privilege to coach under in the 90's. He was GCU. His selflessness during his time was incredible. He was outstanding coach, recruiter, friend, father, etc... His success at GCU was awesome. And he did it during a time when the school did not have a inkling of resources that the have now. He was a forward thinker and did everything in his power to help ALL programs at GCU - almost to the detriment of his own program. What many didn't understand was he had 3-5 scholarship at the end of his career and was still successful in D-2. It was in the early 2000 when his scholarships were almost nonexistent. But he was MORE than a basketball coach. He impacted EVERYONE he met. For me, I would not be the person, coach, father, husband, etc... if it wasn't for MAC! He had a profound impact on EVERYTHING I am! And I know if you asked his players and former assistant coaches, they would say the same thing. My heart is broken today. This man deserves the utmost respect by all coaches here in Arizona. If you met him you would know what I am saying. He has left his mark. I leave you with a story I have told since my father passed away in 1997. Coach MAC, from that point on, became my second father - helped me "grow up"! The story goes like this: On April 26, 1997, my dad, George Lefebvre passed away in my home at 6:15am. I called Coach MAC immediately. Coach told me to be strong for my family and that he would be over in 2 hours. In exactly 2 hours MAC pulled up in his beautiful purple convertible!!! He came in and gave everyone a hug and then took me to the store. We talked, he helped put many things in perspective, and we SHOPPED! That's right, shopped in the old SMITH'S grocery store on (I believe) 67th avenue and Indian School and shopped for groceries. I thought he was doing a "HONEY-DO LIST" for Ms. MAC (Jacquline McCrary). Inside the Smith's was a little take out fast food Chinese joint. He bought all kinds of platters for everyone at home. We packed up all the food in his little back seat and went back to my house. He brought in all the groceries and food, gave everyone a HUG, put the groceries alway and set up all the Chinese food for everyone to eat. He told me that he would be back at about 2:30p. And at 2:30p here comes MAC. He comes in, gives everyone a HUG and then starts doing the dishes. Yes, doing the DISHES!! After making us all feel better, filling up the room with laughter and joy, he tells me that he'll give me a call in a few hours to check on me. My point of this story: MAC SHOWED ME how to be in times of troubles (death in a family). Most people, when someone passes, tells the the surviving family members, "If you need anything give me a call." How many times have we heard that. When someone dies in our lives we are NOT thinking about "calling" someone if we need anything. We are concerned about our own sorrow. MAC didn't TELL US he SHOWED US! The last thing people think about when dealing with death or other stressful situations is EATING. MAC "fed" us! In more ways than one. Like Christ, he fed us love. True, unconditional love. A SERVANT LEADER. This is just one of many lessons I learned from him. I am NOT the same young man that walked into that small office on March 18, 1992. Each year I was able to talk with him I grew up. He is my mentor, friend, father! I hope I become half the man he was and have half the IMPACT he had in the the lives of so many. So many young men he coached or mentored are now following in his footsteps. And there is NO WAY those shoes fit BUT we can at least aspire to the bar he set. I love you Leighton McCrary. Thank you for blessing my life! I leave a final thought for a man he left his imprint here on earth: "His lord said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant; you were faithful over a few things, I will make you ruler over many things. Enter into the joy of your lord." - Matthew 25:21. I love you.
Enjoy the day.
Coach Lefebvre