I’d love to engage in my usual troll fest with my friends here.... but I have another family health crisis to deal with.... so my offerings of wisdom will be more limited for a while . In short- my brother had a perforated ulcer and practically bled out.... it was A miracle that he was even able to be resuscitated at all.... maybe he shouldn’t have been. ...Because now he is probably brain dead or at best has minimal cognitive ability...and we are left with the dilemma of what to do. it’s not a choice that I want to face again - since being the designated authority figure.. I have made the decision to pull the plug on virtually my entire immediate family in the last four years. It’s like a biblical curse. there is no good outcome to this- so just say a little prayer tonight that nature runs it’s course eventually.